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  • Winter Solstice Blessing

    December 21st, 2022

    It is the longest, darkest night of all that sheds light on our better selves, if we stop and take the time to kindle it.  On this night, the ancients lit bonfires that crackled and sparked to the heavens.  They gathered around hearths.   As close to the heavens and earth as they lived, it was hard to escape a fearsome sense of awe as the planet rounded a corner.

    Today, we’re more removed from those global forces. We tend tamer fires.  We light candles and flip a switch to turn on twinkling lights.  But whatever the source, we’re still bound by the same forces.  We’re still compelled to offer light on this night, and when we do, our aspirations come sweetly singing to us from a quiet place, an often too unfamiliar place, in the cathedral of the heart.

    By bowing to the darkness, we bow to our own souls, and we witness the soul of the world unfolding. As we wait, as we watch, we witness a miracle.  We embrace mystery, wonder, and hope.

    Another year on Earth gently passes, unseen, except to those who are watching, tilted in the direction of the axis, leaning in to feel the shift. 

    It’s time to take stock of blessings and review the trials that have and are shaping us even as we stand in the deep shade of the planet’s shadow.  All the candles and trees strung with lights remind us to come together, that we are not alone.

    Each tree, each log, each kandelika knows that from this long night, more light will come.  Through some undeserved benevolence of the universe, each day another tiny flicker will join the light of others until the full torching glory of the sun returns.

    On this longest, darkest night, let us revel together in hope and certainty.  Let us huddle around the fires that we create with our hearts, minds, and hands, cradling all that is light within us, all that is love, blessing the darkness for holding us in a place where we can see what really matters.

    -Radiance Writer

     December 21, 2022

    Photo by guille pozzi on Unsplash

  • Cozy Christmas Movies

    December 17th, 2022

    I have a confession to make.  Despite a degree in English and a few decades of teaching young people to appreciate and interpret great works of literature, I love cheesy, formulaic, plot-driven, cozy Christmas movies.

    The elements of fiction are predictable—a lonely hero or heroine, a parent/spouse/significant other dies, the protagonist has survived a horrible divorce, or gets knocked over the head.  There’s a journey into unknown territory, the meeting of another lonely stranger of child-producing and/or rearing age. There is lots of snow, winter wonderland scenery, and of course falling in love and having to make the choice to leave the old lonely life or the wrong boyfriend/girlfriend/fiancé behind in favor of this new magically-delivered-in-time-for-Christmas person.

    There are best friends and mentors.  A magical event involving a Cinderella-type dress.  Money problems are solved.  The beautiful castle/hotel/old family business will carry on.  But then, darn it, something from that pesky old life resurfaces and threatens to deny the hero or heroine the dreamy new life. 

    Not to worry.  This is a cozy Christmas movie.  All will be well in the end.

    Deep, personal losses will be overcome.  Broken relationships will mend.  The lonely single life will end so a thrilling married or partnered life can begin.

    The conversations are a bit forced.  The wise oracle in the form of a neighbor/servant/co-worker meets the hero or heroine and immediately reveals secrets from the past that will unlock the heart of the resistant beloved.  Suddenly the perfect idea for saving the inn/family business/royal reputation dawns on the protagonist. 

    But, oh, no! There’s a deadline to meet, or a flight plan to interrupt, or an engagement ceremony to crash.  The one who got away must be lassoed or show up at the last minute for a marriage performed by Santa Claus underneath the Christmas tree just as it starts to snow.

    I’ve read enough 20th century Existentialism and lived long enough to know that life will never be this neat, tidy, pretty, and well—cozy.  But wouldn’t it be wonderful?   

    It renews my sense of hope to witness a thirty-year estrangement between a father and son resolve in one afternoon of putting up a Christmas tree using an old box of lights that flicker a few times before working properly.

    It’s empowering to see that the pain of divorce and an empty nest can be overcome on a solo Christmas trip to a castle in Scotland or a wildlife sanctuary in Africa.

    After a meet cute and a few twists and turns, a brand new life minus the problems of the old one appears beneath the Christmas tree. 

    I snuggle into the recliner with my feet propped up and the remote controls handy.  I hold my warm mug of hot chocolate close to my chest and enjoy ninety minutes of what it felt like to wake up on Christmas morning before I figured out that my parents were behind all the mystery.  I suppose watching cozy Christmas movies is my way of playing Santa for the kid in me who still believes.

    -Radiance Writer

      December 13, 2022

    Photo by Kate Laine on Unsplash


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